Moshe Naimi suffered a horrible loss only weeks before he arrived in Rochester May 2 to speak at a fundraiser sponsored by the Jewish Community Federation. His mother, Furuk Naimi, was killed with 27 others March 27 when a Palestinian suicide bomber blew up a Passover Seder in Netanya, Israel. Whatโ€™s more, Mosheโ€™s father, Nusrat Naimi, was wounded in the attack. The Naimi family originally came from Iran; Moshe now lives and works in northern New Jersey.

At an afternoon news conference, Moshe Naimi was clearly still in mourning yet passionate and composed. He said heโ€™d long hoped Israelis and Palestinians alike would profit from economic development. โ€œIโ€™m amazed what Israelis have done with their country, and I hoped that could spread through the region,โ€ he said. โ€œEverybody wants a better life, and a better life for their kids,โ€ he added.

Today, Naimi said, the Israeli economy has come to a standstill. Violence directed against Israelis, he said, has exacted โ€œa high costโ€ beyond the personal and emotional. For example, he said, tourism is almost non-existent now.

We asked Naimi if, through his grief, he could see a way forward to peace. Specifically, we raised the question of the Saudi peace plan now on the table. This plan, descending from UN resolution 242, offers โ€œnormalโ€ relations in exchange for Israeli acceptance of the pre-1967 borders between Israel and a new Palestinian state. โ€œI hope that can happen,โ€ said Naimi, adding a caveat: In Saudi Arabia, he charged, kids are being taught to kill people on the basis of religion.

Naimi also said that — at least before the Netanya attack — his father favored removing Israeli settlements from Palestinian lands in the cause of peace. However, he continued, โ€œthe issue is not how much land one side has; itโ€™s about living oneโ€™s life in peace.โ€ He maintained that at Camp David, the Palestinians were offered the requisite land. โ€œIf you want to negotiate, you donโ€™t do it with the barrel of a gunย… or send a 15 or 16 year old you have brainwashed to blow themselves up.โ€

In the end, Naimi took a harder line on the defense of Israel: โ€œWhatever may be done,โ€ he said, โ€œwe will do it.โ€