Loco motion at RMSC

Motion Commotion.
Sounds like another day in the life with kids. In reality, it’s the name of a
new exhibit at the Rochester Museum and Science Center featuring 30 interactive
components from San Francisco’s Exploratorium.

In summer, my kids’ scientific exploration consists of
testing the hypothesis that for every poke, there is an equal and opposite
poke. At Motion Commotion, they
happily expanded their scientific knowledge by investigating the physics and
psychology of motion.

Take Silage Beach. Standing inside a stationary cabana, red
and white strips of fabric whirling past our eyes tricked our brains into
thinking our bodies were moving. It was like the rides at Darien Lake: My kids
loved it and it made me just as nauseous for a fraction of the price.

But the real thrill was Mercator Your Face. It’s a computer
program that allows visitors to map their faces. The hilarious images
demonstrate how boundaries on maps can be distorted. Don’t worry if you
resemble Siberia. It’s the science that counts.

St. Louis’ Gateway Arch sprang to life in Catenary Arch,
which lets kids build a replica of this engineering feat. Catenary arches are
especially strong because they redirect forces of gravity into compressed
forces that press along a curve. That’s how control top pantyhose work, too.

Suitable for all ages, Motion
Commotion
runs through May 2006. RMSC hours are Monday through Saturday 9
a.m. to 5 p.m., Sunday 12 to 5 p.m. $8 for adults, $6 for children 3-18, under
3 free. For info visit www.rmsc.org or
call 271-4320.

— Linda Kostin (www.junkstorecowgirl.com)

This week for
families

Brighton Memorial
Library
story times through Sat, July 16: Mondays 10 a.m. (ages 3-4), 10:30
a.m. (ages 1-2.5); Thursdays 7 p.m. (families) | Thurs, July 14. Just Clowning
Around Magic Show, 10:30 p.m. must register, (ages 5 & up) | Fri, July 15. Harry Potter Movie Marathon, 10
a.m.& 1 p.m.| Tues, July 19. Mega Bubble Man, 10:30 a.m. must register |
2300 Elmwood Avenue. 784-5300, www.brightonlibrary.org

Corning Museum of
Glass
Wed, July 20. Little Gather storytelling series, One Museum Way,
Corning, 11 a.m. 607-974-3306, www.cmog.org

Cumming Nature Center
Sun, July 17. Butterfly Spotting Day, 6472 Gulick Rd, Naples, 10 a.m.-12
p.m. & 1-3 p.m. $3 donation, www.rmsc.org

Family Summer Concert
Series
Sundays. Total Sports Experience, 880 Elmgrove Rd, 6:30 p.m. Free.

Henrietta Public
Library
Wed, July 13. Airplay, 2-3 p.m. | Mondays, Family Pajama Story
time, 7-7:30 p.m. | Tuesdays, Jumbles, 10:30-11:30 a.m. (grades 1-3) | Fridays,
Movies, 2 p.m. | Wednesdays, Toddler Story times, 10:30 a.m. (preschool). |
Thursdays, Preschool Story time, 10:15-10:45 a.m. (ages 3-4) | Thursdays, Story
time, 11-11:30 a.m. (age 5) | Wed, July 20. Tune In Sing Along, 2-3 p.m. | 455
Calkins Rd. 359-7092

Letchworth State Park
Thurs, July 14. Animal Walk, 1 p.m. Meet at Trout Pond | Sun, July 17.
Wildflower Walk, 1 p.m. Meet at Great Bend Overlook | Tues, July 19. Mary
Jemison’s Legacy, 7 p.m. Meet at Lower Falls Restaurant | Castille, 493-3625

Planetarium Dome Saturdays.
Vacation Skies, RMSC, 657 East Ave,
11 a.m. $6-$8, 271-4320, www.rmsc.org

Seneca Park Zoo Wed,
July 13. Native America,6-8 p.m.
$6.25-$8.75. Pre-register. |ย  336-7213,
www.senecazoo.org

Sonnenberg Mansion
& Gardens Story Time
Sundays. 151 Charlotte St, Canandaigua, 2 p.m.,
free with admission, 394-4922

Summer History Read Wednesdays,
Ontario County Historical Museum, 55 N Main St, Canandaigua, 11 a.m.-12 p.m.
Grades 4-5, 394-4975

Sterling Nature
Center
Wed, July 13. Insect Sweep, Jensvold Rd, northern Cayuga County, 2
p.m. 315-947-6143 | Wed, July 20. Bats! Cayuga Museum, 203 Genesee St, Auburn,
11 a.m. | 315-253-8051

Quiet Noisy Stories
of Preschoolers
Wed, July 20. Children’s Center, Central Library, 115 South
Ave, 10 a.m. registration required, 428-8150

That thing thou dost

“Be thou familiar,” Polonius tells Laertes and Ophelia, “but
by no means vulgar.” And a whole bunch of other stuff. The speech is famous
because as parents, we all give some form of it from time to time. Polonius’s
children, of course, see the sniveling weasel their father’s actions betray him
to be. Ay, there’s the rub: Our children may not hear what we say, but they
most certainly see what we do.

This thought occurred to me as I put on prosthetic breasts
for a role in The Comedy of Errors at
Highland Bowl. Whatever I say from here on out, to my children I will forever
be a man who cross-dresses. I can live with that. I’ll also be a man who yells
at TV sports and when my daughter can’t find her shoes and makes us five
minutes late. Less palatable. Am I a man who treats their mother — and by
extension, women — decently? I sure as hell better be.

I knew a man who told me how important it was to take his
kids to the YMCA playroom when he went for a workout. They would see him
demonstrate how important it is to take care of our physical selves. I figured
they’d probably also noticed that he’d left their mother.

I want my children to see me read and talk about books, to
see that my wife and I value difference, to see that we love each other. But of
course, they’ll see everything. It’s a heavy burden.

— Adam A. Wilcox