The Starks and The Tullys really
shouldn’t have been that surprised by the ending of last night’s episode. If
they’d bothered to look at the bridal registry they could have seen that all
the Freys had signed up to bring BETRAYAL and DEATH!
I have been waiting for this episode since before the series
even started airing. For the past few weeks people have been saying, “I don’t
know about this season; it’s had some good episodes but it just doesn’t seem to
be going anywhere.” If you haven’t read the books I can see that point of view.
But if you’ve read the source material, you know that a lot of things that seem
minor, bordering on inconsequential, have actually been occurring at a fairly
rapid pace in S3, and they have been paving the road to some major moments.
Readers also knew that this week’s shocking ending was coming, and the
expectation of that alone was exciting.
I’m watching the show with a group that has – for the most
part – stuck only to the show. So it was super fun to watch last night as their
stunned silence turned into “Holy shit!/What the
fuck?!” The Red Wedding is, for my money, THE biggest shocker in the books (the
ones that have been published, anyway), and the scene lived up to its
potential. The show did a very good job, although by the nature of the medium
some of the details were lost. So let’s go over a few of those, because they
really add to the richness/tragedy of the situation. Spoilers on!
*The show did a great job communicating the ominous nature
of the Tully/Frey wedding once the band kicked up. Cat (Michelle Fairley)
realized that the door to the dining hall had just been locked, that Lord
Bolton was wearing armor (and would not drink), etc. But the book was far more
successful in building up a sense of unease as this event grew closer and
closer, to the point where readers knew something awful was about to happen,
but were still totally unprepared for what it turned out to be. The big “Oh Shit!”
moment for Cat also might not have been communicated effectively in the show: the
song being played by the band was “The Rains of Castamere,”
which was referenced in a previous episode by Cersei.
The song is about a family that pissed off the Lannisters
and which was subsequently literally wiped out by the Lions in return. So once Cat
heard that at the wedding, she knew they’d been sold out. It’s a chilling
moment and Fairley played it very, very well. She was amazing in general this
episode.
*The show has also not done a great job with establishing
its tertiary characters — this season it has done particularly poorly with the
Reeds — and that hurt this sequence vis-ร -vis the significance of Roose Bolton. Bolton was at the wedding, the guest who
would not drink wine and who was wearing armor under his fine dress clothes.
Bolton was one of Rob’s bannermen. He is also the
person currently in charge of Harrenhal (in the show
at least) and is the man who received and then released Jaime Lannister. His change of allegiance is significant. It demonstrates
that the shrewd people of Westeros realized that
there was no way Robb could win that war. There is also another important
connection for Bolton that has yet to be verified by the show, but I assume is
coming: his bastard son is the psychopath torturing the hell out of TheonGreyjoy. There’s a reason
House Bolton’s standard is the flayed man.
*A minor detail, but one the show visually focused on: when
the Starks and Tullys entered Lord Frey’s home, dishes
of bread and salt were passed around. This is an important Westerosi
custom, and is essentially a contract between host and guest that no harm will
come to either party during the visit. The fact that Lord Frey deliberately
went through the custom, knowing full well he was leading these people to their
deaths, is basically an affront to the gods old and new. But as you may have
guessed by Frey’s nonchalant reaction to Cat holding his wife hostage, Lord
Frey is out of shits to give.
*It’s interesting that I’ve seen the strongest reactions to
the Red Wedding from women who were horrified by the murder of Talisa and her unborn child, specifically the viciousness
with which she was stabbed in her belly. I don’t know if this helps or not, but
Talisa does not exist in the books. Robb has a
totally different character for a wife, and she is not present at the Red
Wedding – I believe she’s still alive. I don’t recall whether or not she was
pregnant with Robb’s kid. I remember people talking about the possibility, but
I don’t recall if it was ever confirmed. So basically, the baby murder was all
for the show.
*The books also do a better job explaining that while the
slaughter was going on inside the keep, Robb’s army was similarly being demolished
in its camp outside. I believe large tents that were set on fire were involved.
*I’ll be curious to see if the show goes so far as to give
us Robb’s final fate: he is beheaded and his direwolf’s
head is sewn on to his body. It is unspeakably grim, but a) the show did show
us Ned’s head on a spike, and b) the show made a point of showing us Grey Wind
for the first time in episodes, and specifically showed the wolf’s death. That
may have been so that Arya could actually witness yet
more horror, instead of just realizing that she was standing right outside the
castle inside which her brother and mother were being murdered. Arya bearing witness to the systematic snuffing out of her
family is actually a key part of her character progression.
So, that’s it for the Red Wedding. Robb is dead. Talisa is dead. Cat is dead. (I remember when reading the
book I thought Cat MIGHT somehow get out of it gravely wounded, because Cat was
a POV character from the very beginning of the series; her death was truly the
most shocking to me.) The Stark Rebellion is over. But don’t think for a second
that things are going to settle down. The actions at the Twins serve to spin
several characters onto totally different paths. (Ask yourself: what does Arya do now?) I’m very curious to see where the season
finale leaves us, because the Red Wedding was the most shocking event of the
third book. Well, until the OTHER wedding, but that’s going to be in Season 4…
Some other thoughts on the episode:
*I have not been the biggest fan of Rory McCann as The
Hound, but I thought the scenes between him and Arya
this episode were terrific. I am realizing that part of that is the fact that Maisie Williams (Arya) may be
incapable of delivering a bad performance (remember how amazing the Tywin and Arya Show was last
season?), but there was the beginnings of an understanding between the two
characters that felt very natural to me. And The Hound’s line about Arya being terrified that everything was going to go wrong
now that she was just seconds away from finally being safe…that is basically Arya’s entire existence in a nutshell. Really
good stuff.
*Bran got his first significant scene of the season,
although it was largely set up for his arc in Season 4. I honestly believe that
the Bran plotline has been the most poorly handled of the season. I don’t know
what the showrunners could have done – they had so
many things to do in S3, and Bran’s current situation isn’t all that gripping.
But trust me when I say that all of this Three-Eyed Crow stuff is building to
something interesting. Unfortunately a lot of it has to deal with Westerosi legend that has been totally ignored by the show
thus far. Have they even mentioned the Children of the Forest? The Green Men?The nature of the Godswoods?Bran the Builder?
Expect the show to focus a lot more on Bran and his crew in S4, and expect things
to get more exciting and creepy as they’re joined by a mysterious new party
member. (I am also glad that we finally got Osha and Rickon off the board
in this episode. In the books they departed when the gang split up after the
fall of Winterfell; I’m not really sure why they kept
either of them around for any of Season 3. It’s also curious that the show is
sending them to a totally different location than their destination in the
books, which frankly sounded way more interesting.)
*One last note on the Bran sequence: that tower setpiece is WAY cooler in the books. The tower is an
interesting structure named for one of the former dragon queens of Westeros, it stands in the middle of a lake with the only
access coming from a submerged foot bridge, and the whole battle with the
Wildlings takes place at night, in a horrible thunderstorm. Production-wise it
would have been nightmarish to execute, but it was kind of a bummer to see how much
of that sequence was just thrown away. There was another interesting difference
here: in the books, since Rickon and Shaddydog are long gone, they’re not part of that scene at
all. And I believe that Ghost is still with Jon at that point — and senses that
Bran/Summer is with them — but I could be wrong. I honestly have totally lost
track of the direwolves in the show. Have they even
mentioned Nymeria since Season 1?
*Jon finally got away from the Wildlings and in the process
majorly pissed off Ygritte. Note to guys out there:
do not ditch your fire-kissed girlfriends in the midst of battle, because that
is not going to end well for any party involved.
*The Sam and Gilly scene was largely
pointless. It didn’t even establish whether or not Sam left the dragonglass in the forest where he killed the White Walker,
as it appeared that he did last episode. It did set up some important
information that will come up next episode (I’m guessing) but the show really
needs to work on making both Sam and Gilly more
interesting. Right now they make me sad every time they’re on screen, and we’re
actually going to see more of them as this all goes along. Unless they fix the
chemistry between the two actors the upcoming boat sequence is going to be
unwatchable.
*Lastly, we got the sack of Yunkai
at the hands of Daenerys’s captains, DaarioNaharis, Grey Worm, and Sir
Jorah. This was largely offscreen
and the entire point of the exercise was to establish that Dany
can trust Daario at least somewhat, and that Jorah is intensely jealous and distrustful of him. What I
noticed in this episode is that Dany herself seems to
be fading into the background of her own plotline. Jorah
is almost becoming the point-of-view character here. I don’t mind that,
necessarily, because I think Jorah is great. But the
show has to be careful with Dany here, because since
they’ve introduced Daario she’s started to lose some
of the regal nature that she’s been growing into all along. That’s obviously
part of the point of Daario. But it’s especially troublesome
here, because the casting of Daario makes it
unbelievable that Dany would be so swoon-prone around
him. Puny McGirlhair is supposed to make the Mother
of Dragons quiver? I don’t buy it. (BTW: Have we skipped over Dany’s betrayal prophecy?)
NEXT WEEK: I honestly don’t know, because the preview showed
us barely anything of consequence.
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There is one more death as portended by the Red Witch in the previous episode (Well, two really, but the Iron born are irrelevant to the TV show apparently). I had assumed that the Red Wedding would be the cliff hanger for this season but I guess they are going with the other wedding instead. Do you really think they will push it until Season 4?
Next time say that you’re WRITING SPOILERS. The way you wrote that you’re going to say what was in the books that wasn’t in this episode seemed like you were saying things that could not possibly be mentioned in the next episode. Such as scenes. But you completely went out and spoke about what will happen in the next episode!! THANK YOU.
The author used the word “Spoilers” in the 3rd paragraph before he got into the recap. I think people were sufficiently warned.
Ken: Yeah, I’m fairly certain the other wedding will be Season 4. They’re splitting Book 3 over two seasons — that has always been the plan. I cannot imagine the show getting to those plot points any earlier than the second half of S4, probably around the same point they did the Red Wedding this time. My current guess on cliffhanger for the finale involves a big advancement in the Bran plot, and the Red Priestess getting tipped off to goings-on somewhere very different.
Regarding the Iron Islands, I expect that stuff to get lumped into Season 4. We saw Yara/Asha in the preview for next episode. I know that people are cool toward the Ironborn stuff now, but her POV chapters in the books and the fascinating politics involving her uncles made me much more interested in that area of Westeros. So I expect that to be a focus of the next season. My question is, will the show even bother getting into Dorne at this point? Or are they just going to let that stay off to the side until those subplots become more relevant to the main story arcs? (Book readers are still waiting for that, with the exception of the Myrcella and Oberyn stuff.)
One of the three names was an Iron Born: Lord Greyjoy.
And I do think the next big wedding will be pushed to S4
I loved this serie. But this turn on killing whole Stark’s family disappรฒinted me completely. What a bullshit and that’s the end for me of the serie. Pathetic. Without sense.
I hate the ending of the episode. I do not want to see the show ever again. The producers killed the series. The Starks family wasn’t supposed to die. I wanted them to live. I wish the father of the Starks family hadn’t been executed in season 1 episode 9. I wanted a good ending. I am so disappointed.
I can’t believe what has just happened. Pretty horrific to watch that last scene. I thought chopping off Ned Starks head was bad. I really liked Rob Stark but have been watching him this season with an impending sense of doom! I need to start reading the books. I agree that it feels like things are taking a while to happen in this season, they are in danger of alienating some people by not advancing some character plot lines far enough whilst taking away some well loved characters
At this point, people need to realize that if you want to read a blog about a show your interested in, maybe wait until you have seen the episode before you read it. It’s common sense. I enjoy the author’s postings very much, but do wait until I’ve seen the episode to then get his thoughts.
Great blog! Thanks to Bernie for pointing me to it.
Having read book three I knew that Robb’s wife was not at that wedding and that she is alive in book 4 (I haven’t read 5 yet), so I was shocked by her death and actually yelled, “What the fuck!” at that moment. My guess is that they just wanted to get rid of his wife’s storyline and in turn, get rid of several characters for the next seasons.
Anyway, nice recap. I look forward to reading more.
I’ve not read past the first book so am happy enough with plot lines, characters etc. I like your blog because I am generally at a bit of a loss.(see first common to explain why) *****pls explain why Bolton said to Robb(during the ultimate cut) ‘this is from the Lannisters’
Cathy: He said that to underline the fact that he had officially switched sides in the war. Bolton was initially one of Robb’s bannermen — Robb left him in control of Harrenhal. But Bolton is an extremely shrewd man — and has no ethics to speak of — and thus he saw that Robb could not hope to win, and by offing him, secured a very nice place in the Lannister regime. The Boltons are not stupid. Just evil.